There's definitely a time and place for your nonchalant attitude. It's all about the circumstances in which this attitude appears. Especially in your place of employment or company of friends.
Take the waitress of the restaurant that I was presently at. She was attractive but her poor attitude made her drop several points on the "attractive scale". She walked around without a single worry in the world, with no sense of urgency or smile on her face. Nothing to indicate she really enjoyed being there. Long story short, they appeared slightly short staffed and her attitude gave me a negative customer experience.
If you surround yourself in positions where you have no sense of purpose or sense of enjoyment. Why are you there?
If your friends are interested in getting drunk and partying every weekend and you're interested in having stable sources of income for a stable future why are you hanging with them?
Show a nonchalant attitude towards issues that do not build you, do not teach you or allow for growth. Stay away from negative people, negative situations and gossip.
Do not let the outside world keep you from making moves. But never let the outside world allow you to lose interest in great opportunities.
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